Life, Learning, & Lessons

April 7, 2008 – 2:19 pm

When I was growing up my parents never held me accountable for anything. In addition there was no structure or consistency. This was petrifying for me as a child because I never knew what to expect. A child also needs to know there are boundaries between them and their parents and holding a child accountable in a consistent manner leads to stability and an easier life.

I mention this because from the time I can remember I never finished anything. I always quit things I enjoyed and suffered through what I hated. This behavior became a habit that I am trying to break.

So, who’s going to hold me accountable? I am. That is why I am making the declaration that I will write consistently in this blog for the next month. This is a test to see if I can do it and I am putting it out there so you guys will call me on it if I don’t follow through with my task.

As a former social worker I encountered children who had the same issues as I did and they were most definitely not held accountable. This is a strong case for the Law of “Subconscious” Attraction. The thing about this life is that we are here to learn and grow despite slips and falls we can still finish as strong.

For me, I have written about consciousness in the past and I have to admit I had higher consciousness in the past than I do now. I had realizations that are now memories instead of knowings I carry with me. I really think this is due to me not holding myself accountable for building habits in thinking positively. However I write for you guys with hopes that you will take value from my blog posts and have the courage to improve your life.

I remember as a younger child I heard a voice or message within where I knew that I should go into my room and complete my homework right after school. I always knew I felt better when I finished things right away but I hesitated because the anxiety of doing things last minute was so familiar. Since my parents never even checked to see if I did my homework I figured why bother, although looking back I knew it would ultimately benefit me. I guess I wanted my parents to be parents and to guide me. Some souls have to learn to guide ourselves even if we have to start in our late 20’s.

Thinking positive

April 6, 2008 – 3:03 pm

There were several pinnacle moments in my life where I made decisions that radically altered the course of events in my life. Some were amazing while more recent choices were devastating. Having courage made the effects amazing. On the other hand playing safe, comfortable and familiar eventually created devastating circumstances.

My thinking was the catalyst for all of the events.

There is tons of information about being present, conscious and evolved circulating in the blog community and while this isn’t bad I believe there is something more fundamental that needs to be looked at. This would be the habit of positive thinking.

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. Thinking positive is the best habit you can get into and the younger the better. If you want to build awareness and try not to think, think positively that it’s going to happen.

Thinking positively in the midst of strong emotions of fear, loneliness, anxiety or depression will make things better. This is where the fake it until you make it comes along. You don’t have to believe it at first but you just have to think it. The thinking will eventually lead to the creation of an opportunity and since you’re already honed into what you want (ie: happiness, a mate, money, healing) you’ll be honed in to recognize the opportunity when it comes along.

The same goes for when you think about what you don’t want so you take a step towards it. This happens every time. It’s almost like you say, I don’t want this to happen so I have to take steps to prepare for it, and then you bring it closer to you every time. This is how it has worked for me at least.

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